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Your late teens and 20s are full of decisions that feel like they should come with a manual. They don't. But they do come with choices, and most of the noise around those choices belongs to other people (I'm looking at you, 2am Instagram and TikTok reels).

My work is about helping you cut through that noise. Not by telling you what to do, but by asking the questions that help you figure out what you actually think, and giving you the space to act on it without someone else's agenda in the way.

Below you'll find the different ways we can work together, as well as some honest notes on when coaching is a good fit, and when it might not be.

Is Coaching Right for You?

It might be a fit if you…

  • Are in the middle of a life or career transition and can't quite tell if what you're feeling is excitement or dread (or both)
  • Know something needs to change but feel too stuck, scared, or exhausted to do anything about it
  • Can't remember the last time you felt genuinely excited about your own life
  • Are tired of being good at things that don't actually fulfill you
  • Want to figure out what you actually want, not just what you're "supposed" to want

It might not be the right fit if…

  • You want someone to just give you advice
  • You're not quite ready to be honest with yourself about what you actually want
  • You're dealing with mental health concerns that need clinical support (therapy will serve you much better)
  • You're hoping coaching will do the work for you without any effort in between sessions
  • You're in crisis mode right now (if things feel urgent or overwhelming, that's a sign you need more immediate support than coaching can offer)

Areas We'll Work On

Career & Direction

Relationships

Confidence & Self-Worth

Habits & Energy

Purpose & Meaning

What You'll Walk Away With

Clarity on what you actually want.

Using the Wheel of Life, we map all 8 areas of your life to see exactly where things are balanced and where they're not. Someone might come in saying I want to transition out of finance, but I don't know if that's a real pull or just burnout talking. Through the mapping, they realize it's not about the job at all: their relationships feel hollow, they haven't invested in anything outside of work in years, and the career restlessness is just pointing at all of it. Most people are surprised by what the map surfaces.

A clearer picture of what's fueling you and what's not.

Your wellbeing is shaped by more than mindset. The spiritual, mental, emotional, physical, social, and environmental factors in your life all play a role. We look at all of it alongside what you actually value, then hold your values up against how you're really spending your time and energy. The gap between the two is usually where the stuck-ness lives.

Specific goals with real plans behind them.

Most goals start vague: I want a new job or I want to be healthier. We take those and get concrete, then use a specific goal-setting framework to build week by week. What does that actually mean for you? What's the real next step? What's getting in the way, and what does accountability between sessions need to look like? Rather than jumping from A to Z, we figure out what's possible right now. Progress compounds.

Concrete, sustainable progress.

Progress looks different for everyone: finally sending the application, having the conversation you've been rehearsing for weeks, or just waking up knowing what you actually want to do next. You'll walk out of sessions having made decisions you'd been avoiding for months, said the thing you hadn't been able to say, or finally gotten excited about something again.

250+ people coached
20+ organizations served
10+ years of facilitation experience
ICF certified + Harvard Ed.M.

In Their Words

This was a 10. So, so helpful. Amy got me to understand something I couldn't articulate before: I need mental, physical, and environmental stimulation to feel alive. Two of the frameworks she uses, Wheel of Life and the six influencers, and the way she tied them together made everything click. She asked questions that helped me dig deeper and deeper… it was the best kind of brain massage. I finally understand why leaving my traditional job was so freeing, and why my new city and startup life feels more meaningful, even if it's not perfect yet. For the first time in a while, I feel ready to stop sitting on the things I've been too afraid to start. I finally feel ready to go after them.
As a chronic overthinker who struggles with balancing and prioritizing different aspects of life, sessions with Amy have helped me a lot. This is my first experience with coaching, and Amy has been very thoughtful and has guided the sessions well. We pinpointed that I had issues with prioritization, and the very next session she had a Wheel of Life worksheet that we could go through together. I also appreciate that Amy is very receptive to feedback. At the end of every session she asks how it went and whether I got what I wanted from it. When we set goals, she follows up throughout the week to see how they're going. It is very easy to tell that she cares. I greatly enjoy my sessions and would highly recommend her!
When I think about from the beginning to now, it almost feels like I went through shadow months, hitting blocks and frustrations. I had a sense that my frustration was blocking me from the answers that were already there. But the persistence, taking ownership and putting that back on me, it was hard work, but it did get me out of my funk. I appreciated the fact that you said you didn't have the answers; it was all about asking me good questions. I like that you reflected back from previous sessions what I couldn't see in the moment. I saw my consistent gremlins and got more clarity around areas that were more tender and needed curiosity, compassion, and care.
Amy was a really meaningful source of guidance for me during a formative period as I was entering the workforce after college. At the time, I was overthinking a lot, and she helped me slow down, see situations from different perspectives, and reframe challenges in a more grounded and constructive way. One thing I really appreciated was how well she tailored her coaching to the way my mind works. I tend to be analytical and can get caught trying to reason my way through everything, and Amy helped me turn that into a strength rather than letting it become overthinking. Our conversations gave me more clarity, confidence, and perspective during a time when I really needed it.
I met Amy when I was stuck writing my memoir. I had written for a few years, and cutting it down felt daunting. Amy became a close guide and friend as she maintained consistent communication and made sure we got over the finish line. Since Amy helped me out, I feel like my organization across my life has been solidified. At times I didn't know how to pursue some issues. They felt too large. But Amy taught me to constantly break stuff down so my to-do list always felt manageable. She never worked with me in a way that felt prescriptive; she came into my life as a friend and remains someone I admire. People like her help make life feel manageable.
Amy asks really poignant questions about the challenges I was walking through. It never felt like our sessions were a waste, and her questions and prompts helped me understand more about how I felt about my day-to-day than I could have imagined. She's also immensely detail-oriented. I never felt like I was "just another client." She would sometimes bring up small details I shared months ago and help me work out how they tied into how I had changed over time. One example: when I was choosing between two job opportunities, Amy helped me work out what factors matter to me now versus when I'd eventually be ready to leave. Long story short, I was really able to figure out why I was so anxious and what matters. I would highly recommend Amy to any younger professionals going through career changes.
I met Amy when I was going through a lot of changes in my life. I did not know what career I wanted to pursue, who I wanted to become, or what I cared about. Amy helped me filter out my values and develop my own definition of a good life. Most importantly, Amy gave me a safe space to share things I felt ashamed of. I recommend Amy to anyone who wants to start their healing and self-discovery journey.
When I was at a crossroads in life, contemplating values realignment and potential career transitions, Amy's coaching helped guide me through potential options in a logical and emotionally intelligent way. More than just a sounding board, she nudged me toward questions I might be too scared to ask myself. If you're seeking a structured way to think about different options in your career or general life path, Amy can provide the clarity you need!
Amy and I worked together on multiple projects in grad school that involved personal development and community healing. She was never afraid to tell it to me straight when I needed a reality check, and simultaneously never afraid to face her own flaws when she was met with interpersonal challenges. She possesses the humility required of a lifelong learner and will grow in whichever direction that allows her to be helpful to those around her, be it individual clients or groups of friends.
2022 was a big year for me, where I faced a lot of uncertainties as well as opportunities. Amy helped me with the decision-making process along the way and empowered me to fully embrace myself. During the course of the past months, my perspective on life and way of thinking have both changed in a positive way. I am truly grateful to have Amy as my coach and I am thrilled to see myself going through such a big transformation under her guidance.
Amy has helped me so much as I transition to this new chapter of my life. Her positive energy and constant support have been vital to my growth. I can count on Amy to help me to focus on my needs and wants, when there are so many expectations from work, family, etc. She often suggests valuable strategies and perspectives in our sessions. So grateful for my time with Amy!

How We Can Work Together

Choose what fits where you are right now.

Coaching

1:1 Coaching

An ongoing partnership built around your goals, your pace, and the questions that keep you up at night. Typically 10–12 sessions over 3–6 months. We start with a free 30-minute consult, then tailor a coaching package that works for you.

  • A dedicated thought partner who isn't your parent, your partner, your boss, or your algorithm (and no, asking ChatGPT the same question 12 different ways doesn't count)
  • Tools to build self-awareness, set goals, and get clear on what you actually value
  • Real accountability between sessions and unlimited e-mail access, not just weekly check-ins
  • A clearer sense of direction and the confidence and skills to act on it

Best for: Young adults navigating a major transition, a stuck point, or the general overwhelm of having too many options and too many opinions about which one to choose.

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Attitudinal Assessment

ELI Assessment + Debrief

You've probably taken a personality test before: Myers-Briggs, Enneagram, StrengthsFinder. You learned something interesting about yourself, nodded along, and then not much changed.

The Energy Leadership® Index (ELI) is different. It's an attitudinal assessment, meaning it doesn't put you in a box. It measures how you're currently approaching the world: the energy you bring to decisions, what's draining you and the mindset patterns that might be shaping your choices without you realizing it. Because those things shift, the insights are immediately useful, not just "interesting to know."

  • A concrete snapshot of the attitudes and energy you're bringing to decisions right now (and yes, there's a research-backed framework for this!)
  • Real self-awareness around what's driving you forward and what might be holding you back, particularly in moments of stress or high intensity
  • 90 minutes 1:1 with Amy to unpack your results, ask every question, and connect what you're seeing to what's actually in front of you
  • Clarity you can use immediately, whether or not you continue with coaching

Best for: Young adults who want a structured, no-fluff way to understand themselves better before (or instead of) jumping into a full coaching engagement.

Investment: $397 (includes the assessment + 90-minute debrief with Amy)

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Reading

Get the Book

My book is a collection of honest, humorous (at least I hope so), and deeply personal essays about growing up, questioning expectations, and trying to make sense of my place in the world. From tense political debates at the dinner table to hiding out in the basement of an Austrian hostel, I reflect on the messy and meaningful process of becoming an adult.

  • Stories about love, family, travel, mortality, late-night existential spirals, and more
  • Moments that are awkward, funny, painful, and tender
  • The questions many of us ask in our twenties but rarely say out loud

Best for: Anyone navigating early adulthood and questioning expectations, or anyone who wants a companion and the occasional belly laugh at the questionable decisions of a younger, chaotic Amy.

See the Book →

Speaking

Book Amy to Speak

Are you a parent, teacher, counselor, or administrator who works with young people navigating big life choices? I speak to high schools, colleges, and organizations on intentional decision-making, identity, transitions, and building a life that's actually yours.

  • Engaging, honest talks on mental health, social media, college and career transitions, and more that resonate with teens and young adults
  • Workshops, keynotes, and follow-up small group sessions tailored to your audience and context
  • Storytelling that cuts right to the core of what matters in life (often through reflections on my own history of disordered eating and two near-death experiences)
  • Available for schools, universities, conferences, and community organizations

Best for: Educators, administrators, and parent organizations who want to give the young people in their community real stories and tools for navigating what comes next.

Book Amy to Speak →

Want something free to get you started?

Take the values quiz, grab a career planning workbook, and more: check out the freebies tab →

Common Questions

What's the difference between coaching and therapy, consulting, or mentoring?

Therapy tends to focus on understanding and healing the past. Coaching focuses on the present and future: what you want, what's getting in the way, and how to move forward. If you're dealing with significant mental health concerns or unresolved trauma, therapy is likely a better fit.

Consultants and mentors typically offer advice and guidance based on their own experience. Coaches don't. My job isn't to tell you what to do: it's to ask the questions that help you figure out what you already know. That said, I bring relevant experience and frameworks into the room. I just won't use them to make your decisions for you.

How long does coaching typically last?

It depends on what you're working on. Some people work with me for 3 months, others 12 months+. A single ELI Assessment + Debrief can also stand alone if you want to start smaller and see how it feels.

For ongoing 1:1 coaching, the minimum commitment is 3 months. That's not arbitrary: it's the amount of time needed to see real movement, not just have an interesting conversation. You need to be willing to show up and do the work between sessions too.

We'll figure out the right structure together in our first conversation.

What does a typical coaching session look like?

Sessions are 60 minutes, with the last 10 set aside for reflection, next steps, and scheduling the next conversation. That structure is intentional. What you do between sessions matters as much as the session itself.

What happens in the other 50 minutes depends a lot on where you are. Some people come in with a specific problem they want to untangle or a goal they're working toward. Others are in full brainstorm mode: figuring out what they even want, what keeps getting in the way, or why a decision they should be able to make keeps stalling out. Both are completely valid starting points, and the work looks different each time.

You set the agenda. I ask the questions you haven't thought to ask yourself yet. People walk out having made decisions they'd been circling for weeks, with a real next step, or with a completely different frame on something that had felt immovable. Good coaching doesn't give you answers. It gives you access to the ones you already have.

How much does coaching cost?

Booking an intro call is always free. We'll talk about where you are, what's in the way, and whether working together actually makes sense. If it does, we'll figure out the structure and investment together at the end of that call.

If you're not ready to commit to a full engagement, or you just want to understand yourself better before deciding, the ELI Assessment + Debrief is a great place to start. It's a one-time, 90-minute session that surfaces the blind spots, energy patterns, and mindset habits that are shaping your decisions right now, often without you even realizing it. Investment: $397.

For ongoing coaching, I work in packages. Currently, a 3-month package of 12 sessions runs $1,920, which works out to $160 a session. Most coaches charge $200-400 a session. I've done my best to keep my rates accessible because I know that's not always realistic for young adults, and I'm able to subsidize my coaching work through my social impact consulting. Sliding scale options are also possible depending on your situation, so if cost is a real barrier, bring it up on the intro call. I'd rather figure something out than have that be what gets in the way. I'll share more about what's included in the intro call!

Why isn't coaching free?

Here's a question worth sitting with first: what is staying exactly where you are actually costing you? Not just in dollars, but in time. Most people spend months, or even years, circling the same problems: they talk about it, think about it, Google it at 11pm. The question isn't really whether you can afford it. It's whether you can afford to keep doing what you're doing (or not doing!).

Beyond ROI, "free" also just doesn't work. When something costs nothing, it's easy to deprioritize. I know because I used to bail on my own coach last minute when she offered me free sessions. True story. When you invest in something, you show up, do the thinking between sessions, and actually use what comes out of it. The people who get the most out of coaching aren't always the ones with the biggest problems. They're the ones who take it seriously.

That's also why I work in packages for ongoing coaching, not drop-in sessions.

With AI, TikTok, and all these online platforms, can't I just get free advice online?

You can, technically. But here's what usually happens: you open TikTok for "quick career advice," and forty-five minutes later you're watching someone's morning routine in Bali and feeling vaguely bad about yourself. That's doomscrolling with extra steps.

And the advice itself? Some of it is genuinely good. A lot of it is someone trying to get you to buy their course. Some of it is just flat-out wrong (looking at you, every diet fad ever). The hard part isn't finding advice: it's figuring out which of the 500 contradicting opinions actually applies to your specific life, situation, and brain.

That's what I do. My coaching is built on hundreds of hours of real human sessions, ICF certification, a Harvard Ed.M., and research-backed frameworks, not a ring light and a good thumbnail (but those definitely help, and I do love a good ring light). Every conversation is tailored to you: your goals, your blind spots, your specific flavor of stuck. I also keep my slots limited, because I actually want to be present when we talk, not burned out and half-distracted. You get my full attention, and a process designed to help you move forward in ways a viral video genuinely can't.

What if coaching doesn't work?

If you don't feel a real difference after a month of working together, I'll refund you completely, no questions asked (other than: "How could I have supported you better?").

For young adults who are done letting other people make their choices for them.

Not sure where to start? That's exactly where I like to begin.

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